6 weeks old & kinda clouded

before 9 a.m.--

snow shoveled

infant mouth fed

nanny coffee-d 

spouse carressed 

laundry gathered

2 articles read and reposted

and then between 9 and 9:30 a.m..--

two sessions of sitting on the floor in the nursery

interrupted only by a breastfeeding session 

folding newborn clothes and putting them "away" 

into a newly purchased tupper wear bin 

he hit six weeks yesterday 

and already the striped dog outfit 

(his first ever worn article of clothing due to popular vote)

and the monkey butt outfit

and the gender neutral plethora of duck outfits 

all reading NB, 

all so small it about cracks your soul in two

all no longer fit

no longer fit 

this parenting thing is about stretching beyond your widest capacity one second

only to have that capacity no longer fit the next 

so stretch again, my friend 

this mothering thing is about the interactivity and intertwinedness of love and loss 

so completely inseperable that it's practically unbearable

wondrous and terrible 

the only reason you get through it 

is because you're so busy 

adding, multiplying and dividing (time, energy, self)

that all the subtracting flies by kinda clouded

but this morning i come to be attentive

awake and present 

to the loss

to the truth of his littleness disappearing

slowly, inch by inch, as he accumulates more life

as i, month by month, accumulate more tupper wear   

i come to be attentive

to document this moment 

through poetry 

so that i don't wake up 20 years from now

walk into my basement full of "storage"

like its some curated museum of my life gone by

and lose my shit on the floor 

i come to grieve and celebrate

this wondrous and terrible stretching 

the way things no longer fit 

to bear witness to this unbearable blend

of love and loss